You don’t know me. Maybe you should avoid trying to be kind by coming off sounding like a jerk? How does that feel? Probably not cool. Now you know how I feel.
I’ve been paying attention to you in Off Topic, and I can tell that it’s not doing anything positive for you. You asked my opinion in private and I said the same thing.
Apparently my experiment in being kind failed. Instead of offering helpful advice, I’m just going to be a jerk like everyone else, which is apparently what people want even if they complain about it constantly.
You don’t express yourself well in type then because I did not get the impression you were being kind.
Maybe it’s because you assume that everyone is attacking you even if they’re actually offering advice in response to a post where you asked for advice.
I asked for a reasonable suggestion. That, would be one that satisfies everyone, not just some.