Perhaps quoting a block of quoted text with an individual’s name mentioned where they might not like it to be mentioned is compounding the problem.
I would never take these sorts of compulsions lightly.
They can be all consuming, they can hurt but the focus of that attention should not have to have google glue their name to you (even as a pseudonym).Everybody lets edit the name out of the posts but respect the ache.
I’ve [REDACTED] her name in my post.
The ache is not healthy after a certain point, and that point was reached many years ago. Honestly he should probably get some help.