Shawn of the Deli

Warb please stop, while your right to be angry voicing it here solves nothing.

Jay decided that Dayv's proof is enough for him.

Donate or don't and let it be.

I don't believe he has cancer.  I have two years worth of phone calls to justify my reasoning.  I have talked to enough people here and Facebook and phone calls abt Dayv to know that nearly everyone I spoke to thinks him a liar or untrustworthy.  

What more can be said or done?  

If Dayv wants to be upset that I reached out to his former friends and ex girlfriend to compare stories well thats his right.  I wouldn't had to if he hadn't put me in the situation.  But what is done is done.

Warb I know how much this forum means to you just let this go.

Jay feel free to delete my account.  

May the Force be with all of you

Jesus what a long day

me and Dayv have not had a fight nor am i trying stir shit up i think he made a mistake since its the holidays i wanna talk about the man we all seem to care about

in the past 2 years Dayv has been thru hell

his "wife" ( they weren't legally married) put him out and took custody of hid kids he moved several times thru at least 2 states

he has been nearly homeless a few times

he has been piss poor broke and starving hungry a few times

I sent the man money with no problems...several times if need be i will pull my pay pal receipts as proof

I hired him to do graphic design and web design for me.  

he asked me last summer to be his best man and i accepted.  they are no longer together

the last fight me and him had was over Warb's presence on his forum.  

I have known Dayv thru the fan edit.com shism  here.. the fight between him and boon, the fight between him and warbler and now the fight between him and his ex gf.  

Dayv designed my business cards my website and my brochures for my catering company

I always have recommended him to prospective clients

he wrote me a letter of recommendation for my masters program

we have a professional and personal relationshiop

do i speak with his ex gf?  yes.  both of us met thru him.  he himself put her on the phone with me several times.  she requested me on fb i accepted. she later deleted me with a message of why she was doing it.. I accepted that ...she is rather classy that way. we have each others phone numbers because i don't sit and Facebook all day.

do i believe that dayv has cancer?  no

I think he is depressed for various reasons thus maybe not in the best of mind.  

i think he made a mistake here and i think he wanted some attention at xmas because he wont see his kids and  his gf broke up with him

i have made a rather bad mistake some years ago on another forum where a prank i pulled got out of hand.  i never took money but i fucked over some good friends without realizing the severity of what i was doing.  my mistake. i still regret it.

does day need money?  yes.  he is struggling bad

should you give him money?  thats up to you

a few weeks back dayv ask people for their honest opinion of him and what he should change about himself on fb.  heres my answer

he should be proud himself for keep going thru the hell he's been thru.  he went from jobless to a manger.  he went from living with people to living on his own.  he from no car to a car.  

but he needs to realize that it isn't the end of the world because life hands him shit. it hands us all shit. deal with it.  

i gave Dayv design work and web design work to build confidence in my friend.  a man feels good when he works and has something to show for it.  i sent him every piece he designed for me.  cards tee shirts and brochures. the man has talent.

if he chooses to remove my website from his hosting or to alter my website well .. thats ok.  i hope he doesn't i still need more work from him.

i wanna start a brewing company next year i hope he helps

but this lung cancer thing worries me.. maybe you made a mistake and will admit it and all will be forgiven??

I'm glad all of the money was returned.  perhaps i should i get my half of his hosting back that i just gave him 3 weeks ago? i agreed to ten bucks a year and gave him forty.  because he was broke.  little did i know he was raising money here..

if dayv chooses to defame my character or my past friendship to him.. well its his right

put saying you have cancer in a random thread knowing that someone would start a spark of hope thread .. well thats wrong.  hate me all you want dayv but people have a right to know you just have bronchitis and are in a low point in life. no employer would promote you out of pity.  why would they waste the money on training when you are a dead man walking? unless you aren't and you actually worked your way up?

i could post endless criticisms of dayv i instead hope to think that holiday depression got the better of him

he crossed a line and i spoke up.

you are all grown do whatever you want with your money.  but i will guarantee he does not have lung cancer.

I have said all that i care to say.

i hope this thread locks and is unstickied but it isn't my forum

PSYCHO_DAYV said: 

 

THANKS FOR THE DRAMA JOHN.  OH, AND THANKS FOR BEING A FRIEND.  MAYBE YOU WERE JUST UPSET THAT YOU WERE BEING KEPT IN THE DARK ALONG WITH MY PARENTS AND OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS?  BEST OF LUCK TO YOU.

and maybe you just posted it here because you i barely come here

don't even dare to think i did this to you

who gave you money when you couldn't eat? remember all those twenty dollar loans?? who gave you money to buy your kids christmas gifts what two years ago?

who gave you design work?  who just paid half your web hosting? who sent april crackers a few months ago..  

think twice before ever speak of my character

someone who has seen people dying of cancer you exhibit none of the signs of dealing with it

you have zero proof of it.  zero

im could care less if you kept me in the dark if it was true...lets consider that only your employer knows and promoted you out of pity??? not your kids not your parents not your best friend ???

you bragging on the phone about your donations triggered me coming here

you quickly returned the money because you can face fraud charges ..federal  charges because the money crossed state lines

consider yourself lucky you just lost a few friends and not facing charges

Dayv got "cancer" the first time when his wife kicked him out.  Now he has "cancer" again when April threw him out. I was friends with her on FB. 

I have given Dayv hundreds of dollars over the years.  This isn't easy for me.  He does a lot of work for me.  We had a friendship and a business relationship.

Think what you want give if you want.

People deserve to know that the truth..  he is doing this for pity.  We all have broken up with women and struggled for money.

You don't lie about cancer to get money from your friends.  

About a year ago I told Dayv I should put up A Spark of Hope thread for him.  He was nearly homeless but I choose not to.  Sometimes a man has to "man up" and deal with life.

Me and Dayv have had fights in the past.  This crosses the line with me.  

I do not believe he has cancer.  

In the past when Dayv was jobless I was the only one helping him out.  When he needed cash I gave him graphic design work and paid him more than he asked.

I been more a friend to him than anyone.

I resent the idea that I bailed on him.  I didn't 

He is taking advantage of people.  At Xmas time when they are more generous.  

Till he makes things right I will not speak with him or be a part of what he is doing.

I emailed Warbler from my personal email and offered to speak to him about this. For me to reach out to Warbler or this community should show the severity of wrong that I believe Dayv is going to.  

Dayv should apologize and return the money.  

I have said all I am going to say on this.  

I rarely if ever come here so consider the following

I speak with Dayv nearly ever week over the phone.

Yesterday I became aware of this.  His ex gf April knows nothing about this.  He just PMed me on his forum that his family doesn't know. 

Last night he was constantly checking his email for pay pal updates.

He sent me the following:

******

Here is where I'm going in March: Cancer Treatment Center Of America in Houston, Tx. They treat people who don't have insurance. It's a 10 day treatment.

Here's what I'm having to start taking for pre-treatment: 1-2 100 mg B17 vitamin tablets per day. Vitamin C 500-1000mg daily slowly working up to 10,000-25,000 mg daily.

It's going to make me very ill for the first week or so as it'll be detoxifying my body for the treatment.

History: When I got the news about the lung cancer April had just told me that she wanted me to move out. I was so angry that I poured lighter fluid on the letter and lit on fire in the kitchen sink. April was furious that I had done that as it was my only tangible proof. Hell, I didn't even want to tell her. I told her friend Sonya first. That really pissed off April. I was upset that I was going to have to go through cancer by myself again.

A few weeks, or a month ago, I posted on ot.com about having cancer in the random thoughts thread. I really didn't think anybody would notice. Unfortunately, it was. I didn't make a big deal about it at first. Hell, my family doesn't even know yet. Warbler took it upon himself to start a thread about it.

I kept it from you, because I didn't want you to know like I don't want my family to know. You have enough on your plate right now.

A few people at work know about it, because I kept showing up to work extremely upset. I'm generally the "super-happy-positive-upbeat-guy at work, so they knew it had to be something bad. They've been helping me do research in finding treatment.

I had pretty much given up. My plan was to jump off of an overpass on January 1st. I still haven't ruled that out. The promotion at work was not only something that they felt that I deserved for all of my hard work but also something to live for. 

No one knows about my daily struggle to stay sane and keep from offing myself because of the cancer. TWO YEARS. That's what they gave me if I can't start treatment soon. There's no way in hell I could pay for that on my own. That's why I think about taking the easy way out.

So, there you have it. 

I also didn't want to mention it here. There's been enough drama on these boards. Besides, there's no one on here to listen anyway.

*****

i have known Dayv several years.  I don't believe what he is doing is right.  Give your money at your own risk.  

His FB page came down because I told him today he was committing fraud.  

Warbler you been unbanned on Dayv's forum and then I deleted my account there.  

I watched my grandfather die of lung cancer Vitamin B isn't a cure.

I'm done with message board drama.

Therapy didn't stop you from getting banned at Manglers or telling me to Fuck Off in an email. 

I give you 2 weeks here.

Jay will ban you again after you start telling him how to run his forum like you did Dayv.

Where's that Johnny Rotten guy been?

Where's the Motti guy?

PSYCHO_DAYV said:

THIS JUST IN:

 

 

Shia LaBeouf told BBC News that a new Indiana Jones movie is in the works and that director Steven Spielberg has come up with a story.

"Steven just said that he cracked the story on it before I left, and I think they're gearing that up," LaBeouf said. No word on whether LaBeouf will actually appear in it or reprise the role of "Mutt" Williams from the last film, Indiana Jones and the Kingdom of the Crystal Skull.

 

 

OKAY, START YOUR BITCHING. :P

man, i can't wait.  Jar Jar and Indy team up to fight the 3D Jaws.  Count me in.

and you brought Warbler back from the dead

C3PX said:

Dear Shawn,

No. I try to stay away from red meats.

 

Sincerely,

hot.like.C3PX

Dear hot.like.C3PX,

Thank you.

Your Colon.

I was there and here and then all of the new scattered forums that followed and now here but i was being sarcastic

treat em like dirt and they stick like mud

if you are trying to be a nice guy....chances are you will lose her

Do you eat HLF C3PX?  Cannabalism is quite the fad you know

me and Boon were good friends at one point...i should log into FE and say hi

Rotten Johnny said:

Originally posted by: Gaffer Tape
My Theatre class chose porn star names the other day by combining our first pet's name with that of the street we grew up on.

So look out some day for: Isaac Dunwoody!

Oddly enough mine is
PYSCHO DAYV

Mine is Shawn of the Deli....odd

I miss that Boon guy and that Joe guy and Warb's Place

I want to be LaForge's eye plastic hair clip visor thing

Nanner Split said:I refuse to let this thread die.

i agree

    Hello Dear
My name is Miss blessing
i saw your profile today at (originaltrilogy.com) and became intrested in you,i will also like to know you the more,and i want you to send an email to my email address so i can give you my picture for you to know whom i am.
Hered is my email address, (bubablessing@yahoo.com)
I believe we can move from here!
I am waiting for your mail to my email address above.
blessing
.
(Remeber the distance or colour does not matter but love matters alot in life)

bubablessing@yahoo.com

Gaffer Tape said:

People who spell "a lot" as a single word also have a lot more problems than watching crappy movies.  ^_~

lmao

vote_for_palpatine said:

 It's basically a bunch of slackers, working at something like a video game/toy/collectible shop, who exhaust every available resource in trying to not work. Customers are messed with time and time again, the district manager is treated to a dog and pony show with every visit, books are cooked to show that the store is profitable, and so on. All the while, employees just come in to fuck around, play with the toys at the store, and have their little episodic adventures.

Clerks the TV show?

C3PX said:

skyjedi2005 said:

 

They should make a show just around FOX canceling shows.

That is a show I'd give a chance! I'd probably suck, and get cancelled by FOX after the first season though.

Sounds like it would be a sequel to Action!

The list from EW.Com

ABC
The Bachelor: Already renewed.
Better Off Ted: Could go either way. Now officially renewed.
Brothers & Sisters: Already renewed.
Castle: Could go either way. Now a safe bet. Now officially renewed.
Cupid: It's a goner. Now officially canceled.
Dancing with the Stars: Already renewed.
Desperate Housewives: Already renewed.
Dirty Sexy Money: Officially canceled.
Eli Stone: Officially canceled.
Grey's Anatomy: Already renewed.
In the Motherhood: It's a goner. Officially canceled.
Lost: Already renewed.
Private Practice: Already renewed.
Pushing Daisies: Officially canceled.
Samantha Who?: Could go either way. Prospects brightening. Now officially canceled.
Scrubs: Prospects brightening. Now officially renewed.
Supernanny: Already renewed.
Surviving Suburbia: A long shot. Last remaining eps may run this summer.
Ugly Betty: Already renewed.
The Unusuals: A long shot. Now officially canceled.
Wife Swap: Already renewed.

CBS
The Amazing Race: Already renewed.
The Big Bang Theory: Already renewed.
Cold Case: Could go either way. Now officially renewed.
Criminal Minds: Sure thing. Now officially renewed.
CSI: Sure thing. Now officially renewed.
CSI: Miami: Sure thing.  Now officially renewed.
CSI: NY: Sure thing. Now officially renewed.
Eleventh Hour: Could go either way. Now a long shot. Now officially canceled.
Flashpoint: A long shot. Could continue airing in Canada.
Gary Unmarried: Could go either way. Now officially renewed.
Ghost Whisperer: Sure thing. Officially renewed.
Harper's Island: It's a goner. Now officially canceled.
How I Met Your Mother: Sure thing. Now officially renewed.
The Mentalist: Sure thing. Now officially renewed.
NCIS: Sure thing. Now officially renewed.
New Adventures of Old Christine: Could go either way. ABC poised to pick up if CBS passes. Now officially renewed.
Numb3rs: Safe bet. Now officially renewed.
Rules of Engagement: Safe bet. Now officially renewed.
Survivor: Already renewed.
Two and a Half Men: Already renewed.
The Unit: A long shot. Now hearing it's a goner.  Back to being a long shot. Now officially canceled.
Without a Trace: Could go either way. It's a goner. Now officially canceled.
Worst Week: A long shot. Now officially canceled. 

FOX
24: Already renewed.
American Dad: Already renewed.
American Idol: Already renewed.
Bones: Sure thing. Now officially renewed for two seasons.
Dollhouse: Could go either way. Now hearing it's a long shot. Prospects brightening. Now officially renewed for 13 episodes.
Family Guy: Already renewed.
Fringe: Sure thing. Now officially renewed.
House: Sure thing. Now officially renewed.
King of the Hill: Officially canceled.
Kitchen Nightmares: Already renewed.
Lie to Me: Sure thing. Officially renewed for 13 episodes.
Prison Break: Officially canceled.
The Simpsons: Already renewed.
Sit Down, Shut Up: It's a goner. Now officially canceled.
Terminator: The Sarah Connor Chronicles: A long shot. Now officially canceled.
'Til Death: Already renewed (unfortunately).

NBC
30 Rock: Already renewed.
The Biggest Loser: Already renewed.
Celebrity Apprentice: Already renewed.
Chuck: Could go either way. A safe bet. Now officially renewed. (Yay!)
Friday Night Lights: Already renewed.
Heroes: Sure thing. Now officially renewed.
Kath & Kim: It's a goner. Now officially canceled.
Kings: It's a goner. Now officially canceled.
Knight Rider: It's a goner. Now officially canceled.
Law & Order: Safe bet. Now officially renewed.
Law & Order: CI: Could go either way. The ball's in USA's court.
Law & Order: SVU: Already renewed.
Life: A long shot. Now hearing it's a goner. Now officially canceled.
Lipstick Jungle: Officially canceled.
Medium: Safe bet. Reportedly renewed for 13-16 episodes. Canceled by NBC; moving to CBS.
My Name is Earl: Could go either way. Canceled by NBC; being shopped to Fox and ABC.
The Office: Already renewed.
Parks and Recreation: Safe bet. Now officially renewed.
Southland: Sure thing Officially renewed for 13 episodes.

The CW
90210: Already renewed.
America's Next Top Model: Already renewed.
Everybody Hates Chris: It's a goner. Now officially canceled.
The Game: It's a long shot. Now officially canceled.
Gossip Girl: Already renewed.
One Tree Hill: Already renewed.
Privileged: Prospects brightening. Now hearing it's a long shot. Now officially canceled.
Reaper: It's a goner. Now officially canceled.
Smallville: Already renewed.
Supernatural: Already renewed.