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Post Praetorian

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#931992
Topic
The Say Something Nice About Another Poster Thread
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KillerQueen said:

Trident will definitely listen to friends rant on and on about the same thing with patience I didn’t know humans were capable of. Haha.

I’d also like to say that Post Praetorian is one of the wisest people I’ve met thus far, really has a knack for problem solving and is very kind.

Thank you, my dear, for your kind sentiments…!

Now I fear I had best guard my words carefully indeed from this day forward…

KillerQueen is very worthy of her goals…she is extremely conscientious and intelligent.

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#929034
Topic
Should The Off Topic Section be more moderated?
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Warbler said:

Post Praetorian said:

Moderated Off-Topic:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NiS26X7BHLA

the other sections of the forum are moderated. Are they like that? And the proposal here was lighter moderation than they get.

They typically have a purpose as indicated by their over-arching topic heading…as such there is a natural guard by which to steer future discussions…

Off Topic has no such guidelines and as such is driven more by the various personalities retorting off of one another in a constant play of oneupmanship…remove the rougher elements and we will most likely devolve to mere pleasantries and tepid conversations with ever waning interest.

An imagining of the politics thread with no strong dissenting views should serve as an apt example of how might fare the rest of Off-Topic…

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#926665
Topic
The Place to Go for Emotional Support
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Possessed said:

Dek Rollins said:

RicOlie_2 said:

I don’t think he’s the praying type, though I think prayer would help…

Hang in there, Possessed. I can’t say it’ll solve all your problems, but breaking free from your addictions would probably help you at least somewhat. I wish it was an easier thing to do, but I really don’t think all that drink and pot is doing you any good.

I’m positive that these addictions are the reasons for the lack of fulfillment he described.

No, they aren’t. I don’t feel like getting in to all that at the moment though.

Do not concern yourself with explanations, my friend…merely know that you have individuals here who care for your well-being and understand you are struggling against a difficult obstacle. Please keep us informed…we are here should you wish to delve into specifics, but do not feel it is necessary if you do not wish to do so.

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#926664
Topic
The "101 Ways to Improve Off-Topic" Thread
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I vote no for moderation…I actually prefer the occasional troll. Consider how nicely it allows members to close ranks. Without the occasional touch of outside cajoling this forum tends to atrophy somewhat…

Besides the fact that we cannot all agree on who is and who is not a troll. Some of the styles of humor on display can easily be misunderstood as trollish to the uninitiated. I would tend to gravitate away from a forum with too little diversity as I was once a member of such a board in which a similar purge took place. The end result was a group of us all in agreement about everything…which naturally led to nearly no real discussion. Within a few months activity had for all intents and purposes ceased.

What I would suggest is that we treat our trolls with an appropriate level of patience…that we not necessarily harass them (as has been a common activity), but that we attempt to engage them in patient dialogue…I have seen many a troll talked into more mature behavior once they lose their defensive edginess. Quite often a troll is merely someone with something of a fragile ego. Instead of allowing themselves to be vulnerable to potential rejection they seek out said rejection directly. Once they have been able to confirm their worst fears they pursue a course of destruction.

It is somewhat akin to a saboteur. One who is welcomed into gainful employment is rarely prepared to purposefully destroy the machinery of his/her successful occupation…yet the attitude may be sharply contrasted with one who may feel they are perpetually on the outside looking in. Such an individual merely uses destruction as a means of attracting attention rather than using meaningful discussion to accomplish the same task.

A careful reading of many a troll’s initial posts on this forum tends to show a pattern of hesitant attempts at discussion, followed by a misunderstanding, followed by increasing insults, followed by outright trollishness…rarely have I witnessed an individual who has been shown true concern and compassion on a forum turn into a troll unless it was their original intent, but often I have seen individuals who feel themselves to have been slighted or hurt to have lashed out in a persistent troll-like fashion.