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DM = Twitter's Private Message service.

DAYV! I got news on the twitter front! Rocco from http://fashionnewslive.com/ DM'ed me asking how he can help. I need you now to either through this thread or, via pm to tell me what I should DM him. If you check his site you'll see he's a media presense. So, what information should I tell him?


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PSYCHO_DAYV said:


I'M GETTING ALL OF MY DOCUMENTATION TOGETHER. I'M ALSO STARTING THE APRICOT TREATMENT.

It's probably a good time for you to get the documents together. So that when Rocco gets back in touch with you or, I. You have documented proof ready and, at hand to show. Also, I just thought of something. It might be best if you give me an e-mail address either here or, via pm to send Rocco. So that you and, him can get in contact more efficiently. Alongside any other information that you may want me to relay.


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MY APPETITE IS COMPLETELY GONE NOW.  

 

BTW, THE TOTAL COST FOR MY RADIATION TREATMENT IS GOING TO COME IN RIGHT AROUND $11,000.  I CAN MAKE PAYMENTS ON IT AS I GO, BUT IT'LL TAKE ME FOREVER TO PAY IT OFF.  OH, AND THEY WANT AT LEAST 10% DOWN BEFORE I CAN EVEN START.

"I'VE GROWN TIRED OF ASKING, SO THIS WILL BE THE LAST TIME..."
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PSYCHO_DAYV said:

MY APPETITE IS COMPLETELY GONE NOW.  

 

BTW, THE TOTAL COST FOR MY RADIATION TREATMENT IS GOING TO COME IN RIGHT AROUND $11,000.  I CAN MAKE PAYMENTS ON IT AS I GO, BUT IT'LL TAKE ME FOREVER TO PAY IT OFF.  OH, AND THEY WANT AT LEAST 10% DOWN BEFORE I CAN EVEN START.

So that means your first target should be raising $1,100 as a deposit (that sounds reachable as a first phase).

In fact it seems like a good unit of fundraising to work towards (10 sweeps at raising the same target).

If you kept us appraised at how those sweeps were going it could help us donate to top up whatever you get from elsewhere.

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Try not to think that way Dave.

It could be your last Christmas if this wasn't happening to you (it could be anyone's/everyone's last Christmas), you may have many more Christmases with your children.

Nobody knows the future.

Take each day as it comes, focus on trying to get well and raising awareness to the situation that you and many other people find themselves in.

It might help if you could find someone who knows you to log on and give us progress reports when you are too busy or too tired to do it.

As mentioned earlier it would also help people to get a grip on the situation by posting some documentation (with your personal details blanked out) and maybe a photo or two if you feel comfortable with that.

There is a generosity of spirit around here but there is also an understandable level of cynicism in society in general.

Everyone wishes the best for you but you really need money at the moment and people are more likely to give that if they understand your predicament more clearly.

Keep your chin up and your caps on.

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I absolutely agree with the first part of Bingowings' post.     Try to not give up, yet.  You may still have many good years left.   

As for documentation:  I understand why Bingowings said that and it does make some sense.   However I think we should also understand if Dayv might be reluctant to post private info on an open forum as this.    I certainly wouldn't be crazy about the entire world being able to see my private medical info. 

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I wouldn't like too much of my medical file going public either which is why I suggested blanking out particularly personal details (including details of any doctors who may be treating Dave).

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Heya Dayv.  I like the Notes on Suicide page and the layout.  I just wanted to let you know that you're in my thoughts and prayers, and my Ma's church has you in their prayer list.

Keep us updated, pal.  :)

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Donation sent, and keep us appraised.  You've got friends outside of this place, too, Dayv!

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I'm sure you guys noticed, but Jay sent out a mass mailer on the subject. Hope that gives this more attention, Dayv.

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^What, an email?  I didn't see anything.  Doesn't matter as I've already donated, but still I'm curious.

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^Yes, I got that e-mail and I needed it. I tend to stick to a few threads and forget to browse the forum as often as I should. As a result, I didn't know about this situation until I got Jay's message.

I just read through the whole thread. I'm saddened by what is happening, of course, and I hope you will keep your chin up as much as you can. It's great to see the helpful spirit here. When I read about the car, it reminded me of a very similar incident that happened to some friends here. Their 4-year-old daughter was diagnosed with leukemia and is undergong treatments. During one visit to the hospital, the family's van was stolen from the parking lot. Another stupidly timed coincidence. Thankfully, they got their van back the next day and thankfully you got your car back too. ;)

I'm definitely willing to help out. (not as much as I might like, but some nonetheless) You're one of the good guys, DAYV. I've always enjoyed your posts and I'd like to keep on doing so.

P.S. Frink, I dunno if it was sent to every member (probably, though), but certainly to long-timers/regulars, so you'll probably get one once your ISP wakes up. :p

 

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I just figure Jay already knows I open every single thread here ;-)

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Yes, and right after I posted that up there, I remembered this comment Jay made in the e-mail:

"Even if it's just $1, getting that much from every forum member would provide over half of what Dayv needs to complete his treatments."

So yes, it is definitely everyone. :) If you still haven't gotten his message after a while, I can paste it here if you want.

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Hey, Dayv. I've pretty much stopped posting here, as some of you have possibly noticed, but I got an email from Jay about this.

I just want you to know I wish you the best and hope we can help you out.

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