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SilverWook said:

Jetrell Fo said:

Okay, so now husezni knows who complained about him, can we move on?

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Wrong. 😉

This thread is for helping people, not to rub others noses in crap, wouldn’t you agree? The post was unnecessary.

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Jetrell Fo said:

DominicCobb said:

Jetrell Fo said:

Yeehaw … we got ourselves another roundup.

Lame.

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I’m sorry that I’d rather defend the struggling and good hearted coffee than the bigoted husezni that’s trying to make coffee hate himself. If that makes me a part of some “posse” then fine. I’m disappointed that you’d put petty disagreements with me in front of coffee’s personal mental health.

All my posts directly to those coming for support do not match your summation of my participation in the support of fellow members.

I know you voiced your support which is why I was so disappointed to see you defending husezni’s harmful words.

I will say that some of you seem to come in drooling when you go after folks over your interpretation of their words. That is something that should be left out of this thread and I’m sure you’d agree because we’re here to help people not hurt them.

I almost alway just ignore husezni’s bullshit, but if it’s going to hurt coffee, I’m not going to pass that by.

The fact that you lump all my critical posts into some kind of mythical “posse” is really irritating and honestly pretty insulting. My opinions are my own and I do not appreciate you considering me to be part of an unthinking and devious hive mind just because others agree with me and you don’t.

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DominicCobb said:

Jetrell Fo said:

DominicCobb said:

Jetrell Fo said:

Yeehaw … we got ourselves another roundup.

Lame.

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I’m sorry that I’d rather defend the struggling and good hearted coffee than the bigoted husezni that’s trying to make coffee hate himself. If that makes me a part of some “posse” then fine. I’m disappointed that you’d put petty disagreements with me in front of coffee’s personal mental health.

All my posts directly to those coming for support do not match your summation of my participation in the support of fellow members.

I know you voiced your support which is why I was so disappointed to see you defending husezni’s harmful words.

I will say that some of you seem to come in drooling when you go after folks over your interpretation of their words. That is something that should be left out of this thread and I’m sure you’d agree because we’re here to help people not hurt them.

I almost alway just ignore husezni’s bullshit, but if it’s going to hurt coffee, I’m not going to pass that by.

The fact that you lump all my critical posts into some kind of mythical “posse” is really irritating and honestly pretty insulting. My opinions are my own and I do not appreciate you considering me to be part of an unthinking and devious hive mind just because others agree with me and you don’t.

Your gallant enthusiasm to pounce claws first is insulting to me. Especially because it always happens when it’s someone you and others disagree with.

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Jetrell Fo said:

DominicCobb said:

Jetrell Fo said:

DominicCobb said:

Jetrell Fo said:

Yeehaw … we got ourselves another roundup.

Lame.

😦

I’m sorry that I’d rather defend the struggling and good hearted coffee than the bigoted husezni that’s trying to make coffee hate himself. If that makes me a part of some “posse” then fine. I’m disappointed that you’d put petty disagreements with me in front of coffee’s personal mental health.

All my posts directly to those coming for support do not match your summation of my participation in the support of fellow members.

I know you voiced your support which is why I was so disappointed to see you defending husezni’s harmful words.

I will say that some of you seem to come in drooling when you go after folks over your interpretation of their words. That is something that should be left out of this thread and I’m sure you’d agree because we’re here to help people not hurt them.

I almost alway just ignore husezni’s bullshit, but if it’s going to hurt coffee, I’m not going to pass that by.

The fact that you lump all my critical posts into some kind of mythical “posse” is really irritating and honestly pretty insulting. My opinions are my own and I do not appreciate you considering me to be part of an unthinking and devious hive mind just because others agree with me and you don’t.

Your gallant enthusiasm to pounce claws first is insulting to me. Especially because it always happens when it’s someone you and others disagree with.

I don’t know how in the world that could be insulting to you. Husezni is basically telling coffee he should hate himself because he’s gay and I’m telling him off for that and that’s “insulting” to you? Forgive me if I don’t understand.

It’s obvious you’re taking issue with me because we’ve had disagreements in the past, but I want to make it clear, despite what you may think, all my posts ARE MY OWN, and any disagreements I have with you are because of YOU, not loyalty or whatever the f you think it is. The suggestion that I’m criticizing you or others simply because I’m trying to be a part of a “posse” or hopping on the bandwagon is something I find personally insulting.

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You read my post the way you wanted. I’m insulted because you do it, period, it doesn’t matter who it’s directed at. Instead of finding a better way to present it you tear and claw at folks. I don’t care who you like and who you don’t, the majority and the minority are obvious lines firmly drawn here and if you think I’m wrong, all one need do is look around at the history of disagreements.

I use the term “posse” because it never fails that after one of you takes issue with something said, others roll in one after another to pile on the dissatisfaction. Even telling people they are wrong and hated because no-one is defending them or thinks as they do but a group of you are right that they are wrong so you all must be right. It sucks.

Now, let’s be done with the infighting, and get back to helping people shall we?

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If you choose to ignore what I’m saying that’s fine. It’s clear the only one here with an “infighting” problem is you, as you’re clearing holding a grudge against me and take a biased view towards my posts.

Just know that from now on I won’t be putting up with your “posse” insults and will start reporting you when you refer to me as such.

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DominicCobb said:

If you choose to ignore what I’m saying that’s fine. It’s clear the only one here with an “infighting” problem is you, as you’re clearing holding a grudge against me and take a biased view towards my posts.

Just know that from now on I won’t be putting up with your “posse” insults and will start reporting you when you refer to me as such.

Yeah, that’s what I’m doing, your threat is duly noted. The only thing that is clear, is that we see things differently. I will ask you politely to keep away from me at this point, and no, I won’t report you. I will respond in kind.

Now that we’re clear clear, can we please get back to helping people?

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It’s all our faults for antagonizing poor PTOTST. (Who directly stated he didn’t like frink. What a shocking coincidence!)

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Possessed said:

It’s all our faults for antagonizing poor PTOTST. (Who directly stated he didn’t like frink. What a shocking coincidence!)

That is a whole different ball of wax my friend, LOL.

I did however at least give that user the benefit of the doubt before he went a hunting. I am guessing that is why someone laughed my way when PTOTST said he “liked me”. It was weird all the way around.

I’m sure we should be expecting another visit from him in the not so far off future.

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Methinks if this keeps up, the whole thread is gonna be locked.

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Jetrell Fo said:

Possessed said:

It’s all our faults for antagonizing poor PTOTST. (Who directly stated he didn’t like frink. What a shocking coincidence!)

That is a whole different ball of wax my friend, LOL.

I did however at least give that user the benefit of the doubt before he went a hunting. I am guessing that is why someone laughed my way when PTOTST said he “liked me”. It was weird all the way around.

I’m sure we should be expecting another visit from him in the not so far off future.

He started going off the deep end before you said that, which probably influenced myself and possibly others to assume you were doing that. But I’m willing to give you the benefit of the doubt that you just hadn’t read some of his prior posts when you said that.

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Possessed said:

Jetrell Fo said:

Possessed said:

It’s all our faults for antagonizing poor PTOTST. (Who directly stated he didn’t like frink. What a shocking coincidence!)

That is a whole different ball of wax my friend, LOL.

I did however at least give that user the benefit of the doubt before he went a hunting. I am guessing that is why someone laughed my way when PTOTST said he “liked me”. It was weird all the way around.

I’m sure we should be expecting another visit from him in the not so far off future.

He started going off the deep end before you said that, which probably influenced myself and possibly others to assume you were doing that. But I’m willing to give you the benefit of the doubt that you just hadn’t read some of his prior posts when you said that.

I had only seen the one thread and I believe it was the only one I posted in too at that point. I didn’t see the others or post til after he’d been banned. My apologies if I gave the wrong impression.

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So, my apologies to those that came for help, and ended up with a little extra show this evening. It was not meant to derail the thread or somehow minimize your situations.

I want to say, I don’t think husezni was trying to be hateful, or demeaning. Some of our fellow members see it differently. That’s fine. We all have a unique view of the world because it belongs to us and no-one else. At times, especially on the internet, it comes off far worse than it really is. It’s just another example of how people are different compared to how people are alike. It is the curse, and the blessing, of being human.

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You’re wrong.
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JEDIT: Huh, I didn’t realize you could bold emojis.

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I think it’s a rule that I’m always wrong.

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Jetrell Fo said:

Mike O said:

Really wish after all the kindness offered to me, I could offer up some good advice to all the other suffering people in their thread, but sadly, I can only offer empathy and hopes that everything will work out for the best. That feels sadly hollow, though. If I weren’t having a crippling crisis of losing faith, I may offer some prayers. Lots of love, and hope you guys figure things out.

Your faith in yourself needs to be healed before your faith in other things can follow. We will do what we can to help.

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Thanks. I appreciate it.

“What Orwell feared were those who would ban books. What Huxley feared was that there would be no reason to ban a book, for there would be no one who wanted to read one.”

Neil Postman, Amusing Ourselves to Death

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My iPhone joyously flagged another of Matt Dillahunty’s anti-Catholic rants for me. How nice of it to keep feeding my monster. Fuck you and the fucking wifi you rode in on. Fuck my life.

I had a rare decent day at work and all I can think about is my OCD shit. Fuck you, brain. No medicine will ever restore my faith or erase my memories. I’m tired of this. I just want to go to sleep and not dread waking up every morning.

“What Orwell feared were those who would ban books. What Huxley feared was that there would be no reason to ban a book, for there would be no one who wanted to read one.”

Neil Postman, Amusing Ourselves to Death

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Warbler said:

moviefreakedmind said:

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moviefreakedmind said:

If your medication isn’t working then I doubt that more of it will help you. Also, have you considered disconnecting your internet if you can?

It’s 2017. I need the Internet day-to-day.

Yeah, having internet is pretty much a necessity these days.

Why?

Its 2017. The internet has basically become a necessity these days. Just remember there were probably some oldtimers in 1917 that wondered why electricity was considered a necessity.

Frink age joke in 5…4…3…2…

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Mike O said:

My iPhone joyously flagged another of Matt Dillahunty’s anti-Catholic rants for me. How nice of it to keep feeding my monster. Fuck you and the fucking wifi you rode in on. Fuck my life.

I had a rare decent day at work and all I can think about is my OCD shit. Fuck you, brain. No medicine will ever restore my faith or erase my memories. I’m tired of this. I just want to go to sleep and not dread waking up every morning.

May I ask why it flags these things and isn’t there any way you can remove this flag so that it does not show these?

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It probably suggests things to him based on his browsing history. Is there any way to wipe your browsing history on a phone?

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Yes, although the specifics will depend on what browser he’s using.

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Jetrell Fo said:

Mike O said:

My iPhone joyously flagged another of Matt Dillahunty’s anti-Catholic rants for me. How nice of it to keep feeding my monster. Fuck you and the fucking wifi you rode in on. Fuck my life.

I had a rare decent day at work and all I can think about is my OCD shit. Fuck you, brain. No medicine will ever restore my faith or erase my memories. I’m tired of this. I just want to go to sleep and not dread waking up every morning.

May I ask why it flags these things and isn’t there any way you can remove this flag so that it does not show these?

Because I actively look for them because it’s part of my incomprehensible onsession. I wish I knew WHY I kept looking at things that upset me, but I do. And this one was fucking nasty. So, naturally, I went back to it. Several times.

“What Orwell feared were those who would ban books. What Huxley feared was that there would be no reason to ban a book, for there would be no one who wanted to read one.”

Neil Postman, Amusing Ourselves to Death

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Mike O said:

Jetrell Fo said:

Mike O said:

My iPhone joyously flagged another of Matt Dillahunty’s anti-Catholic rants for me. How nice of it to keep feeding my monster. Fuck you and the fucking wifi you rode in on. Fuck my life.

I had a rare decent day at work and all I can think about is my OCD shit. Fuck you, brain. No medicine will ever restore my faith or erase my memories. I’m tired of this. I just want to go to sleep and not dread waking up every morning.

May I ask why it flags these things and isn’t there any way you can remove this flag so that it does not show these?

Because I actively look for them because it’s part of my incomprehensible onsession. I wish I knew WHY I kept looking at things that upset me, but I do. And this one was fucking nasty. So, naturally, I went back to it. Several times.

Well, maybe we can figure out a way to help you steer clear of these somehow. Remember, I talked about focus and how difficult it might be, but necessary. This is one instance where it would be invaluable to you. Making a point not to look up these subjects will help keep them from being flagged in your browser for you. Please try. It will get easier as you go but if you don’t make the effort it will always come back to haunt you. I support you and believe in you.

You can do it.

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I’m deliberately going back to it. I don’t know what’s wrong with me, but it’s like some sort of compulsion. I “forgot” my phone all day at work today, and when I came home, I ran to it and ran to this particularly nasty new one that bothers the most yet. Something must be wrong with me 😦. I was barely able to get out of bed this morning.

“What Orwell feared were those who would ban books. What Huxley feared was that there would be no reason to ban a book, for there would be no one who wanted to read one.”

Neil Postman, Amusing Ourselves to Death