Sorry but I didn't expect my posts would appear as trying to put gazoline on fire, on the contratry.
Actually I wished to point out that if somebody lied to you in this matter, he's far to be the main responsible of all this, neitheir is Warbler to have created this topic besides. I think everyone is responsible here for giving credits to words. That's all. Now, if it's to hard to face I'm sorry.
I can't believe my posts are so badly understood even if I'm not from English culture.
PS: and again, I really think the creation of a dedicated section for big cases as medical or financial help would show it concerns more than one person here.