In Return of the Jedi, it’s repeatedly and explicitly demonstrated that Luke is a pacifist:
- Luke’s first attempt to rescue Han from Jabba is a peaceful negotiation.
- Luke dissuades his friends from using violence against their Ewok captors.
- When Luke and his friends are about to be cooked by Ewoks, he resolves the situation peacefully.
- Luke refuses to fight Vader until finally being manipulated by the Emperor.
- Luke even refuses to fight the Emperor himself.
Sounds like you’re very selectively remembering that movie. #rotjpigmen, anyone? As for the rest of your post…