A friend of mine told me his older brother not only wanted to get in touch with me, but that he was excited to do so. He still hasn’t, though. Am I being paranoid or cynical if I say that I’m starting to think he didn’t actually care to talk to me?
Just normal paranoia.
Either that dude is being a tool, or his brother is busy. I think that if you acknowledge the possibility of both truths, but hope for the best, then maybe you won’t feel hurt no matter the outcome. Lame advice, but find a way to protect your heart, but don’t be callous.