It really doesn’t take that much effort.
Kinda is when you have no confidence whatsoever when it comes to women. Seriously, most people I hang out with say that I’m a lot of things, but I’m not boring, but whenever I’m around girls I’m so nervous about appearing to be an asshole that I just become a hollow boring shell of myself, which leads to me having quite a few girl friends, but no girlfriends.
I’ve found that social anxiety combined with a sexually repressive upbringing tend to adversely affect one’s romantic prospects with members of the desired sex.
And now y’all know why I firmly believe in nudism.