ok let me rephrase  i need to make a dvd menu that has part for the movie, a part for languages and part for bonus features and  when you select each one it pulls up new screen with options of playing all of them or just ones you wanna see

Need to be more descriptive.  The program you are using to test the menus, the program you used to create the menus, the method you are using to create the menus.  Have you ever created dvd menus before?

Try the trial of DVD Lab Pro.   It is fully functional for thirty days, which should be more than enough time, and there is an excellent help section accessible through the progam and other useful guides on Mediachance's website.

im very american and english is my only language im just not good ad wording things to get my point sometimes i want a fully functional menu...like the menus youd normally see on a dvd....wgen you choose bonus features a menu screenopens and you can choose 1  bonus feature or cchoos all of them to play

thnk you

and yes NONE  ive created menus plenty of times before but not vry complex menus like im asking to learn to do

As before, it depends on the program you're using.  I personally use either Adobe Encore or DVD Studio Pro (part of the Final Cut Studio package).

You'll need to make a different menu for every section (i.e., one main menu with the options "Play," "Chapters," "Subtitles/Audio," "Extras;" a few menus for chapters, with "next," "previous," and "main menu" buttons on each; a menu for subtitles/audio; and a menu for extras), and link them all together through the buttons on each menu.

Be sure to have a link back to the main menu for each other menu page, otherwise navigation will be a bitch.

thnks for yr help  much apreciated im gonna try adobe encore and see how that works,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,