Best of luck DAYV. Couldn't donate too much but I did what I could!

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Dayv,

I know we don't know each other personally but I've been here long enough to at least know your moniker here and what it's associated with.

My mom is a Cancer survivor....as was my Grandmother...there is hope.  Having positive support is just the beginning of a long fruitful future for you and your family.

I don't have much but I'd be more than happy to donate even a little to get things started.  Maybe we could do something along the lines of what was done for Laserman.

Stay strong, keep your children close to you, and stop in here when you need a little confidence boost....I'm sure everyone here will do what they can.

Cheers!!!!

http://www.facebook.com/pages/A-Spark-of-Hope-for-Psycho-Dayv/183643078315658?v=wall

I rarely if ever come here so consider the following

I speak with Dayv nearly ever week over the phone.

Yesterday I became aware of this.  His ex gf April knows nothing about this.  He just PMed me on his forum that his family doesn't know. 

Last night he was constantly checking his email for pay pal updates.

He sent me the following:

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Here is where I'm going in March: Cancer Treatment Center Of America in Houston, Tx. They treat people who don't have insurance. It's a 10 day treatment.

Here's what I'm having to start taking for pre-treatment: 1-2 100 mg B17 vitamin tablets per day. Vitamin C 500-1000mg daily slowly working up to 10,000-25,000 mg daily.

It's going to make me very ill for the first week or so as it'll be detoxifying my body for the treatment.

History: When I got the news about the lung cancer April had just told me that she wanted me to move out. I was so angry that I poured lighter fluid on the letter and lit on fire in the kitchen sink. April was furious that I had done that as it was my only tangible proof. Hell, I didn't even want to tell her. I told her friend Sonya first. That really pissed off April. I was upset that I was going to have to go through cancer by myself again.

A few weeks, or a month ago, I posted on ot.com about having cancer in the random thoughts thread. I really didn't think anybody would notice. Unfortunately, it was. I didn't make a big deal about it at first. Hell, my family doesn't even know yet. Warbler took it upon himself to start a thread about it.

I kept it from you, because I didn't want you to know like I don't want my family to know. You have enough on your plate right now.

A few people at work know about it, because I kept showing up to work extremely upset. I'm generally the "super-happy-positive-upbeat-guy at work, so they knew it had to be something bad. They've been helping me do research in finding treatment.

I had pretty much given up. My plan was to jump off of an overpass on January 1st. I still haven't ruled that out. The promotion at work was not only something that they felt that I deserved for all of my hard work but also something to live for. 

No one knows about my daily struggle to stay sane and keep from offing myself because of the cancer. TWO YEARS. That's what they gave me if I can't start treatment soon. There's no way in hell I could pay for that on my own. That's why I think about taking the easy way out.

So, there you have it. 

I also didn't want to mention it here. There's been enough drama on these boards. Besides, there's no one on here to listen anyway.

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i have known Dayv several years.  I don't believe what he is doing is right.  Give your money at your own risk.  

His FB page came down because I told him today he was committing fraud.  

Warbler you been unbanned on Dayv's forum and then I deleted my account there.  

I watched my grandfather die of lung cancer Vitamin B isn't a cure.

I'm done with message board drama.

Dayv got "cancer" the first time when his wife kicked him out.  Now he has "cancer" again when April threw him out. I was friends with her on FB. 

I have given Dayv hundreds of dollars over the years.  This isn't easy for me.  He does a lot of work for me.  We had a friendship and a business relationship.

Think what you want give if you want.

People deserve to know that the truth..  he is doing this for pity.  We all have broken up with women and struggled for money.

You don't lie about cancer to get money from your friends.  

About a year ago I told Dayv I should put up A Spark of Hope thread for him.  He was nearly homeless but I choose not to.  Sometimes a man has to "man up" and deal with life.

Me and Dayv have had fights in the past.  This crosses the line with me.  

I do not believe he has cancer.  

In the past when Dayv was jobless I was the only one helping him out.  When he needed cash I gave him graphic design work and paid him more than he asked.

I been more a friend to him than anyone.

I resent the idea that I bailed on him.  I didn't 

He is taking advantage of people.  At Xmas time when they are more generous.  

Till he makes things right I will not speak with him or be a part of what he is doing.

I emailed Warbler from my personal email and offered to speak to him about this. For me to reach out to Warbler or this community should show the severity of wrong that I believe Dayv is going to.  

Dayv should apologize and return the money.  

I have said all I am going to say on this.  

MY EX-GIRFRIEND DOES KNOW ABOUT THE CANCER.  SHE'S KNOWN SINCE I FOUND OUT.  I AM NOT COMMITTING FRAUD.  MY FB PAGE IS UP.  THE ONE STARTED BY JEDITRAY HAS BEEN REMOVED.  IT WAS STARTED WITHOUT MY CONSENT, AND IT'S BEEN REMOVED PER MY REQUEST.

IF ANYBODY FEELS SKEPTICAL THEY ARE FREE TO EMAIL ME, AND THEIR FULL PAYPAL AMOUNT WILL BE RETURNED PROMPTLY.  

THANKS FOR THE DRAMA JOHN.  OH, AND THANKS FOR BEING A FRIEND.  MAYBE YOU WERE JUST UPSET THAT YOU WERE BEING KEPT IN THE DARK ALONG WITH MY PARENTS AND OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS?  BEST OF LUCK TO YOU.

JEDITRAY HAS BEEN ISSUED A REFUND ON HIS DONATION.  IF I WERE TRYING TO COMMIT FRAUD I COULD EASILY HAD KEPT THE MONEY.  ANYBODY ELSE THAT WANTS THEIR MONEY BACK IS WELCOME TO IT.

TO THOSE THAT DON'T I THANK YOU VERY MUCH.  IT WILL INDEED HELP GET ME THE MEDICAL TREATMENT THAT I NEED.

ANOTHER REFUND ISSUED.

Why was I refunded? If it was anything I did in the past I apologize.

EVERYBODY HAS BEEN REFUNDED.  

PSYCHO_DAYV said: 

 

THANKS FOR THE DRAMA JOHN.  OH, AND THANKS FOR BEING A FRIEND.  MAYBE YOU WERE JUST UPSET THAT YOU WERE BEING KEPT IN THE DARK ALONG WITH MY PARENTS AND OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS?  BEST OF LUCK TO YOU.

and maybe you just posted it here because you i barely come here

don't even dare to think i did this to you

who gave you money when you couldn't eat? remember all those twenty dollar loans?? who gave you money to buy your kids christmas gifts what two years ago?

who gave you design work?  who just paid half your web hosting? who sent april crackers a few months ago..  

think twice before ever speak of my character

someone who has seen people dying of cancer you exhibit none of the signs of dealing with it

you have zero proof of it.  zero

im could care less if you kept me in the dark if it was true...lets consider that only your employer knows and promoted you out of pity??? not your kids not your parents not your best friend ???

you bragging on the phone about your donations triggered me coming here

you quickly returned the money because you can face fraud charges ..federal  charges because the money crossed state lines

consider yourself lucky you just lost a few friends and not facing charges

JOHN, YOU NEED TO STOP CALLING APRIL RIGHT NOW.

YES, MY PROOF OF CANCER IS NOT HERE.  I'M NOT GOING TO BE CALLED A LIAR BY THOSE WHO ARE SKEPTICAL ESPECIALLY ONES WHO WERE KEPT IN THE DARK AND HAVE BEEN TALKING WITH MY EX-GIRLFRIEND BEHIND MY BACK.  THAT IS WHY I ISSUED THE REFUNDS.  I MAY NOT BE SHOWING ALL THE SIGNS OF CANCER LIKE OTHER PEOPLE DO, BUT THEN HOW MANY OF YOU SEE ME ON A DAILY BASIS IN REAL LIFE?  I'LL TAKE CARE OF MY MEDICAL EXPENSES MYSELF.  THAT WAY NOBODY HAS TO FEEL GUILTY IF THEY FEEL SKEPTICAL AND ARE AFRAID TO ASK FOR THEIR MONEY BACK.  THERE ARE NO HARD FEELINGS, AND IT REALLY DOES MAKE ME FEEL GOOD THAT SO MANY OF YOU WERE WILLING TO HELP ANOTHER PERSON OUT THAT YOU BARELY KNOW.  

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL OF YOU.